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* If you were faced with ending a relationship because your
family and your girlfriend/ boyfriends family did not get along, would you end
it or stay together? Explain why or why not and be sure to use examples when explaining
and also relate it to Romeo and Juliet.*
It would be a very hard choice to make. I love my family very very much and no one can come between us. If this was just like a what if I would try to find my way out of this situation. Like what if I didn't fully like that person obviously I would have chose me family. What if it isn't a what if?. I would have a very hard time choosing but I think I would have still stuck with my family. What if Romeo and Juliet didn't kill them selves for each other what if she woke up just in time would the relation ship work out till the end. That's why I chose my family. Your family is with you for life when your so called "soulmate" leaves you and the your all alone. If you chose that person and they leave you I don't think your family will be to happy with you. They probably will be pisses at you because you didn't side with them. We can only imagine what would happen to the families if Romeo and Juliet didn't die. Would they still be in this argument or would they face their differences and just face the fact that they couldn't break Romeo and Juliet apart. I think that I chose my family because my mom always tells my brother there are plenty fish in the sea and those fish will come to you, you just have to wait.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Jessica it is a very hard choice to make.I think i would try to fix the situation so everybody gets what they want.But in this situation im not sure if I would side with my family. I would still care for them very much but If I love someone they shouldn't try to take them away from me because our families were in a fight and still are.
DeleteI get what you mean and I see where your coming from. A lot of people don't see it that way which makes ur response really instressting. It's hard to see it that way because I like to see it as you choose that person. Only because if your family really loved and cared about you and yourwell being they would accept who you were to love for your own happiness. Now I see it your way and I do agree with what u have to say.
DeleteI personally think that 99% of people would stay together even if both sides of the family fought. I think if two people love each other they should be together and they shouldn't care whats going on between their families and they should learn to fix there issues between them so the sake of the boyfriend and girlfriend.And if they don't fix it things could get a lot worse. For example in Romeo and Juliet Their families fought and fought over and over again and eventually forbidden them to see each other and eventually they killed themselves. I’m not saying that will happen but it could lead to something just as worse.
ReplyDeleteSo I think most people would stick together in a relationship even if there families fought because they love each other and they wouldn’t anything to get in there way.Even family because sometimes family can not always to be right on things like this , and maybe these are ways to end the fighting between families. What i mean by this is maybe the families will come to an end of fighting for the sake of the boyfriend and the girlfriend and the families could try to start over and become good friends because they are fighting for a stupid reason. These are all the reasons I think relationships should stick together because maybe eventually it would stop the fighting and they could move on and become friends.And I personally think most people would agree with me in this situations like this one.Or at least you can see where i’m coming from.
I agree with chris. The families should just LEARN TO LOVE EACH OTHER AND EVERYONE will be happy. The families shouldn't fight. They should be happy for their kids. And that, is the true meaning of christmas
Deleteim with you chris we should all get along with each other and not fight over dumb tedious reasons such as family's hating each other. the parents should just settle there differences and let there children be happy with there lives and be able to live it with there significant other
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ReplyDeleteIf this happened to me, I would not end the relationship. I think that would be unfair to me and my girlfriend. Either way the question just sounds stupid. They can’t force me to be with who I want to be with. They would have to get along with her, if not, then oh well. Sucks for them I guess. I wouldn’t like the fact of my parents not liking my girlfriend though. Even if they wanted me to leave her, i’m not that type of person. I think that ending a relationship over something so stupid like that, is well, stupid. My family would have to understand the fact that that’s the person I want to be with. So nothing would be able to change that. And i’m sure that eventually they would learn that they’re not acting like grown ups. Because i’m their son. If they knew that I wasn’t happy, they would stop. And it’s not like they would hate each other so much that they wouldn’t talk to each other. But even if that was the case, I wouldn’t end the relationship. My mom and stepdad are pretty cool about stuff. They are protective with me, but they do let me have my own freedom, which is pretty cool. So this would never happen with any of my relationships. So i wouldn’t have to worry about this. But if that ever did happen, I would know how to fix it. My girlfriend’s parents love me, and my Parents love my girlfriend. So nothing would really go on like that. But there are parents out there that make their kids end the relationship, and that would suck. So i’m happy to have the parents that I have. So, If this situation ever happened to me, I know that it could be fixed, and nobody would have to get upset or hurt.
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DeleteIf i was faced with the challenge of ending a relationship because my family and my girlfriend/ boyfriend's family did not get along it would depend on how well we get along and however long we've been together. That's what it would be based on. If i was with her for a while and we got along then i would stay with her. But if we didn't connect and were only together a couple of weeks then i would end it. This is just my opinion. An example would be when romeo and julies families didn't know about them and they stayed together anyways. It is pretty stupid if you think about it because you should be with whoever you want to be with and that's nobody else's to judge. It also really doesn't matter what your family thinks.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Dylan. I feel like it would depend on how long you guys have been together. Also, I like how Dylan says if he was together with her for a while, then he would stay with her because they known each other for a long time, and both of them wouldnt want to go away from eachother, and it really doesnt matter what your family thinks.
DeleteIf I had a choice to end my relationship or stay together because our families did not get along together, then I wouldn’t end it because my family would have to understand, and it would be unfair to us. I personally think that 99% of people would stay together even if both sides of the family fought. I think if two people love each other they should be together and they shouldn't care whats going on between their families and they should learn to fix there issues between them so the sake of the boyfriend and girlfriend.And if they don't fix it things could get a lot worse. For example in Romeo and Juliet Their families fought and fought over and over again and eventually forbidden them to see each other and eventually they killed themselves. I’m not saying that will happen but it could lead to something just as worse. So this would never happen with any of my relationships. So i wouldn’t have to worry about this. But if that ever did happen, I would know how to fix it. My girlfriend’s parents love me, and my Parents love my girlfriend. So nothing would really go on like that. But there are parents out there that make their kids end the relationship, and that would suck. So i’m happy to have the parents that I have. So, If this situation ever happened to me, I know that it could be fixed, and nobody would have to get upset or hurt. An example would be when romeo and julies families didn't know about them and they stayed together anyways. It is pretty stupid if you think about it because you should be with whoever you want to be with and that's nobody else's to judge. It also really does not matter what your family thinks about the decision.
ReplyDeleteIf i was faced with a situation in this case, ending a relationship because our families don't get along i wouldn't. The reason why i say no is because if you truly love your Boyfriend/Girlfriend you would do anything in your power to make things work whether the family likes it or not. Family should support you and your decisions 110 percent. Especially if you really love that person and have true genuine feelings for one another. There are millions of things to do to make things work out. For example have a family gathering and talk it out and resolve the problem or something of that matter because at the end of the day family or not if they don't support you then that's something they just have to live with. There comes a point in life when you start making your own choices and if i could pick a yes or a no of ending a relationship over something like this i wouldn't. In the story Romeo and Juliet they didn't let their families hatred for one another get in the way of them being together, so why should we? If that person is the love of my life and has a deep spot in my heart then we're being together, i don't care what anyone has to say. In life people are going to judge and disagree with your decisions but at the end it's
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